Most children and moms are struggling between the Likes & Dislikes and wants of each other because we see it like that.
Kids - Like ice cream and all sugary things, watching TV, lying around...
Kids - Don't like vegetables everyday, having to put towels & clothes & books in place ...
Moms - Want them to eat less sugar, regulate TV time, put things in place
Moms - Don't want to say things 5 times over or chase kids to complete home work or be on time
Now see how it changes if it were in the Should & Should Not space
Kids - Should eat sugars in limited quantity, plan watching their TV shows, eat vegetables regularly, put their things in place ( Kids know what is right. And the should is about doing the right things)
Kids - Should not overeat on sugars or compromise on vegetables, leave their things scattered around, watch too much TV ( again Kids know what is not right!!)
Moms - Should remind them to eat less sugar, regulate TV time, put things in place
Moms - Should not have to say things 5 times over or chase kids to complete home work or be on time
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